I cannot complain too much about life. I am surrounded by people who love me, accept me and value my opinions and contributions. That said, life has thrown more than a few curves. Just being a trans woman is challenging enough. We grew up relatively (by Western standards) poor. I had young parents, and though they did a better job than most “mature” parents, it did come with a few hurdles to get over, especially between my mom and I. Also, I have had some lousy luck on the job front and have generally reacted poorly to that bad luck. I know I could have had it far worse, but that doesn’t mean I have to like how things have turned out so far, so long as I don’t let it bog me down or let me be angry with everyone else.
So it is nice that things are finally turning around for the better for me. I had an excellent interview with NYPIRG yesterday that left me believing that by the end of today I will have a great job doing something that has a positive impact and that I am very passionate about. Even if I don’t hear from them, I have some great leads on other jobs, and my writing is finally getting some attention. Life does get better.
I know I have let things get to me more than they should, but there is no point regretting that now. Now I am simply going to enjoy that things are turning around, and those things that have always been there to be appreciated.
First, I really hope you get this job! Secondly, thank you for such a lovely post around disclosing being a transgender woman. I know you will inspire other transgender people to be more visible. Just knowing you, Christine, will prove how much we need to love and support our transgender brothers and sisters!
Thank you very much Michael, you are very kind.
Christine, thank you, but honestly you are the one that is very kind. You are such a lovely woman with such a lovely soul. We must all unite for civil rights and social justice. Let me know about the job.
I will. The young woman who interviewed me complimented me for being so articulate and passionate about stopping fracking. I am pretty sure I’ve got it.
Keeping my fingers crossed for you.